The Rights of Children Project

The Cost of Children

It was recently calculated that the cost of raising a child from birth to 18 amounted to R 160 140.00 for a middle-income family. Talk about shock! That doesn't even touch college tuition!

But R 160 140.00 isn't so bad if you break it down. It translates into R 8 896.66 a year, R 741.38 a month, or R 185.34 a week. That's a mere R 26.48 a day! Just over a Rand an hour. 

Still, you might think the best financial advice says don't have children if you want to be "rich." It is just the opposite. What do you get for your R 160 140.00?

• Naming rights. First, middle, and last!
• Glimpses of God every day.
• Giggles under the covers every night.
• More love than your heart can hold.
• Butterfly kisses and Velcro hugs.
• Endless wonder over rocks, ants, clouds, and warm cookies.
• A hand to hold, usually covered with jam.
• A partner for blowing bubbles, flying kites, building sand castles, and skipping down the sidewalk in the pouring rain.
• Someone to laugh yourself silly with no matter what the boss said or how your stocks performed that day.
• For R 160 140.00, you never have to grow up.
• You get to finger-paint, carve pumpkins, play hide-and-seek, catch lightning bugs, and never stop believing in Father Christmas.
• You have an excuse to keep reading the Adventures of Piglet and Pooh (...my personal favorite).
• Watching Saturday morning cartoons, going to Disney movies, and wishing on stars.
• You get to frame rainbows, hearts, and flowers under refrigerator magnets and collect spray painted noodle wreaths for Christmas, hand prints set in clay for Mother's Day, and cards with backward letters for Father's Day. For R 160 140.00, there is no greater bang for your buck.
• You get to be a hero just for retrieving a Frisbee off the garage roof, taking the training wheels off the bike, removing a splinter, filling a paddling pool, and coaching a rugby / cricket / soccer / tennis / netball team that never wins but always gets treated to ice cream regardless.
• You get a front row seat to history to witness the first step, first word, first bra, first date, and first time behind the wheel.
• You get to be immortal. You get another branch added to your family tree, and if you're lucky, a long list of limbs in your obituary called grandchildren.
• You get an education in psychology, nursing, criminal justice, communications, and human sexuality that no college can match.

In the eyes of a child, you rank right up there with God. You have all the power to heal a boo-boo, scare away the monsters under the bed, patch a broken heart, police a slumber party, ground them forever, and love them without limits, so one day they will, like you, love without counting the cost.